Journaling:
STBX called while she was on her way to pick up D4 from school. She asked how my day was going. I then asked about S1. We happily conversed about his nuances and development.

Then, STBX said that she might have an appraiser come by to look at the house later this week. I asked her to let me know what she needs.

I thanked her for calling, said it was good to talk with her (she replied in kind), and wished her a good day with the kids.

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Good news is all of our interactions are cordial. Up until today, it had been a week without any D talk.

STBX is obviously still thinking about me to some extent because she has sent texts of music recommendations or a reminder that one of my favorite artists is performing on late night tv.

Still, she is obviously still moving forward with D too. I simply need to remain calm and confident, taking advantage of my newfound free time, while being ready to seize opportunities to make small connections with STBX.


Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15