25 gave you alot to chew on ... sometimes posts like that you have to read... take a walk and think about it .. then read it all again.
Your post ... that sounds better. And trust me, we all come in here desperate and wanting to do anything to fix it ... here is the thing. The M and the issues ... not all your fault, not all your H .. you both played a role, however now .. at this point .. you are in the same spot many of us are in. You are wanting the M and your WAS is not working on it with you ... that is the frustrating part, which is why you have to start using the principles from the book, really start putting them into play ... 90 days from now you will look back and these posts will seems so normal and you will be wondering why it took so much effort to put them into your everyday life.
So .... What GAL's are you wanting to start doing, get off your tush and go do something, something you can sink your teeth into ... I know 25 has a master list of some amazing things she did, its inspiring. Me, I joined a softball team once a week, Football once a week, Spent the past 10 months attending a church class and became Catholic (Something I did for me honestly .. not W) I bought a Harley and enjoy riding eraly in the mornings, Coach my S's baseball team, started cooking again. I am here to tell you without staying crazy busy ... no way would I have grown, no way would I have been able to get out of bed and actually liked the person I see looking back. I am at peace ... my M is still up in the air .. but I am at peace.
Lets start there .. call it homework .. list some things you have wanted to do, wanted to try ... now is the time to start living.
