Lucy, Have you been to a lawyer to seek any legal advice? The reason that I am asking is that if he does follow thru on a divorce, you will need to know what your legal rights are. Check around to see if there are any lawyers that offer a free consultation and make an appointment. You can also "google" your state to see what the laws are as well. Just because you seek legal counsel, it does not mean that you are filing...but knowledge is power and you need to know what you are entitled to.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
