I know you are in a bad place and it sukks. And what I'm about to say is not said with harsh intentions, however, don't let your h's crazy become your life. Life is too short to focus on what all he is or is not dong. Because in the end, those really are his choices and his consequences.
I saw your posts on the other thread. Please don't let OW occupy too much brain space-she simply isn't worthy of the energy. She may be tall, short, curvy, skinny, drunk, a heroin addict, and any other myriad of combinations. Job is right in that she just isn't you. For your own sanity, please stop focusing on them. Also, and again I say this with kindness, don't worry about who is on who's side or how others see what he is doing is wrong. This is going to take a very, very , very long time and it's important that you keep living because life continues on regardless of what he does.
You seem like a really kind, nurturing lady so focus on what will make life rich for you. Hang in there!!! It really does get better:)
Last edited by Georgiabelle; 05/12/1502:55 PM.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
