gan | Thanks gan. Yes, I'm relatively at peace with the mediation. I tell newcomers here that D is not the end and that's also how I feel. It might be the ultimate goal post, the maximum distance at which we'll go before we start coming back towards each other. And if we're never to be back together, then let's indeed take the steps to move on.
After reading this, I re-read one of my posts after becoming divorced. I believe there is no finality in a D. It provided no closure to me, changed my feelings in no way, other than confronting the fact I was D'ed. Explaining the situation or declaring that I am D'ed to others, is the only piece of this that impacts my life. I am sure this is probably different for all those involved, and depends on circumstances (such as kids or affairs).
Mozza - Keep your chin up!
Last edited by mahhhty; 05/12/1502:49 PM.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015
