Ripken - LRT with a WW and divorce filed #3

[Ripken8]

Fade - Here's where I'm at - I'm moving out 5/23 no matter what, signed the lease. She put in a temporary order for me to move out anyway. And the discussion we are finalizing is on the temporary order. Finally, my lawyer already clarified me moving out of the house will have no negative impact on custody or financially what I'm paying her. Also, already hired the attorney so not shopping around for others.

I had thought about helping with the house being sold, but I've gotten so much advice on dragging out the divorce and not helping with anything, letting her deal with it. Letting my lawyer talk to hers and having communication go that way.

That hasn't seemed to help and only built resentment from her.

What I'm not hearing is how to communicate and interact with her. Go dark or help her with the process? Get respect or communicate and have relationship of any kind? If I help with the process, aren't I just stopping any DB techniques and supporting her decision to divorce, creating a self fulfilling prophecy I don't want?

That's why I'm asking about MLC and WW. Because of other people's sitch it appeared you act differently between them. So again, I'm needing help on communication and interaction with her now. What do I do?

NOT legal advice.