I am confused if I am the WAW or LBS. I asked him to move out so we both can get our act together.
Can someone tell me which one I am?
What I will say is that it is not unusual for the LBS to become a WAS, that is really part of the script that seems to play out here.
It really doesn't matter tbh, you need to focus on yourself, and become the best you can possibly be. Then when you are fully whole and healed worry about a new relationship, with whom ever YOU choose!
