Forgiveness has been so critical for me to get through this without hating her. And, as others have said on other posts, it really is more for me at this point than for her. Honestly, she is not in a place right now to really care if I forgive her -- she doesn't think she's done or is doing anything wrong right now.
On a related note... She still hasn't opened or read the card I gave her for Mother's Day. On a positive note -- she also hasn't just tossed it in the trash without even opening it... Yet. She may still decide to do that, but for now I am taking it as a positive sign that maybe she will read it since it hasn't gone into the trash yet.
Work is keeping me so incredibly busy -- and it is very challenging work... So I am so grateful for this new position for so many reasons. God has really blessed me with this career move :-)
Me 48, Her 50 (Same-Sex Couple) 3 Children Together: 9.5 years before BD BD: Week of 10/27/14 ExW started EA w OW 9/2014 ExW married OW 12/2015
