Hi Jim. Thanks for the questions. Last one first. L/C is all about living your life from you and not from insecurities or programs as she calls them. for example I have always struggled with jealousy and the need for someone to love me Over the last year 7 months L/C has helped me get this in to perspective
When I went to L/C it was to try to save my M. W also went because she wanted the same but once I found out about OM it came to a head and W left.
Jim re the part about OM , I'm torn and somedays I'm convinced she's not with him and others im convinced she is I hoe it's ok but I will just lost a few pros and cons and then I will answer the "what if "'question.
Pros.
W. Left W was driving OM to various hospitals for his mental health issues W smoke weed with OM and he stays overnight with her W confides some in OM W is friendly with his sister W does a lot of running around for OM chemist , doctors , lifts to work etc W. Spends time with OM
CONS
W appears to have no help with basic things like her car re simple things the ting mirrors etc hat any friend would help with W seems in a very very troubled state and turns to me non stop for simple things like telling me about her day or her family W is letting her appearance go. W has always been very smart W is reaching out to my L/C again and has L/C convinced OM is not romantic W has recently started to make contact with my mum W has posted very sad things on Facebook which all my friends have access to. I'm not on Facebook W has mentioned coming home in an oblique way W texts and calls me most days W tells me that she is much more unhappy now than before
Jim. Re the what if she's telling the truth sceniro. Then it would cjhange things because I do love her and I would love to have my family complete , however I also think that W made choices for herself and I have to respect those choices and can I ever trust what she says re OM
At the moment I have chosen a path and I will stick to it. W seems to be sticking to her path but it's very sad to see as she is a shell of her former self
I hope I answered all your questions Jim and I appreciate you taking the time to ask
