Thanks Gan, I figured. It's funny, hearing that from someone that used to be "enemy camp" from the point of view I had in my M...it's truly uplifting, and gives me a lot of hope that if we can find this level of mutual goodwill and admiration- well, maybe M is possible. Especially when we can keep the communication strong because I can tell you it's been very valuable to me. Thanks for the help along the path!
Hey, no worries. That bold bit though? That's pretty toxic stuff. Maybe that explains why all went silent on my thread when we picked up on this topic. Maybe everyone on the forum now sees me as the enemy camp But back to you, I'm sure you can see it now, but that ^^^ attitude would have been a pretty challenging for your W to deal with. Not exactly going to make her want to make sexy time with you. You've gotta keep working through that, just like I need to keep working through my triggers (some of which still get a little tugged when I read your posts...nothing to do with you BTW, all to do with me and whatever head trash I forgot to take out).
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014
But back to you, I'm sure you can see it now, but that ^^^ attitude would have been a pretty challenging for your W to deal with. Not exactly going to make her want to make sexy time with you. You've gotta keep working through that, just like I need to keep working through my triggers (some of which still get a little tugged when I read your posts...nothing to do with you BTW, all to do with me and whatever head trash I forgot to take out).