The "talk" scheduled for Saturday..

[Huddy]

Hi Tulo

No, I'm not into dogs, but I understand the pain that this must be giving you. I'm sorry to hear about it, they have obviously been giving you some moral support.

The fog is from Sandi. If you read her posts, you'll see about the fog. I just don't see how jumping into bed with him is going to help. He's pushing you away, but wants the fringe benefits of your relationship. You've got to say no to that. I haven't had sex for two months, but W is pushing me away, so how would a session in bed help if the end result is she still doesn't want me?

I think waht Zeus says makes sense. He needs/you need to give it some space. OK, you want the relationship to go on, at the moment, he doesn't seem to know. He's not going to work that out if he can pull your heart strings when it suits.

First - look after yourself. Second - look after your dogs. Third - get some space and let him make the next move.

I'll keep popping in, if you don't mind. I hope Sweden is sunny today!