I will not check how often my W is texting OM I will not check how often my W is texting OM I will not check how often my W is texting OM I will not check how often my W is texting OM I will not check how often my W is texting OM Wow! This is much easier to write since cut/copy/paste was invented. Losty, my friend, I have actually NOT checked my W's phone record for about one week. I feel great about it. I won't say I don't think about doing it. Eventually I will have to, just to collect info for my L. But for now ignorance is bliss. Perhaps you and I should make a wager who can go longer without checking. Sportsman's bet, of course. Starting today, if you're game.
I know it's hard because your H does it right in front of you. Tonight I was at an event with OM. Hate the sight of him. He was texting the entire time. I have no idea whom, but I can make an educated guess. But you know what? I don't care. Don't give them the satisfaction of knowing they are getting the best of you. Act "as if". You will be better for it regardless.