I have been reading alot of threads today! In between working of course!
I have realized something after reading some things 25years wrote on another thread. I also realized it after I read my own post from the other night. I really need to work on forgiving myself and more important work on forgiving my W. That is hardest! I think I get frustrated with myself for letting her behavior bother me at times. I keep trying to justify my feelings of resentment. I haven't been detaching so well. Physically and mentally yes. But not emotionally.
I think I did handle Mother's Day okay. I helped the kids with the gifts for her. She told me thank you at the end of the day. I think she needed that. It felt good to not do something expecting something in return.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"