I'm not really getting how this is different except that you sound like not being around her lessened your anxieties;


It sounds as if the way you two communicate is still filled with unspoken comments and mind reading and vague replies, so it's all still guess work...

I mean, how have YOU grown or changed from before?

Is it all just about backing off and GAL (Getting A Life, which is right out of the DB books I'm still not sure you read)

or what? Do you communicate this way with the other woman "friend"?

I want to be happy for you - truly -

but I feel as if you just changed chairs in the game of musical chairs.


If another woman leaves you, won't you'll be in the same place you were?


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change