Oh, and then there was the text right before she left Friday afternoon asking if I'd like to have a "quickie". Which I did and we did. It was very nice.

Completely unprompted by me, for the last 10 - 14 days I have been very hand off, very just being there not asking or trying to expect anything at all.

Clearly, this adds up to that I just have to not trust anything, and find a way to stop obsessing.

Me 37,W37
D8,D5
T20 years, M13 years
BD-5/14
MC starts (continues)-9/14
EA discovered-10/14
Piecing(?)-11/14-5/14
"I just feel 'done'"-5/15
Trial S (I moved)-6/15/15