Hi Jim. L/C has been involved since Before W left and has had the opinion that there is no OM When W left I was convinced that W left to be with OM. over the last 6 months W has seemed very unhappy and my circle of friends have all voiced the opinion that W could not be involved with some lone else due to her behaviour. While L/C had convinced me that W was not with OM romantically she did concede that by now W could be W then asked to see L/C out of the blue. I told L/C and she was pleased because W knows that L/C would ask about OM W went to L/C and L/C is now more convinced than ever that W is not with OM in anything other than friendship and not even a close one. When I spoke with L/C 'I voiced my opinion that W was with OM and L/C then said that she couldn't help me because I wouldn't listen to her. She said I was better off seeing a counsellor who would listen to my opinion. L/C is convinced W Is Completely lost and needs me to be there for when she needs me L/C has also met my Ds and thinks I should stand because my family is repairable
Jim L/C is a fantastic lady and I'm not sure if her not seeing me anymore is a wake up call. I am fixated on OM and it has caused the end of my marriage I'm over the mental torture of them together and now I focus on how W lied to me and spends time with OM
W called today a started on about money and how she can't afford her car anymore and how she applied for a job cleaning but didn't get it. It's tougn to hear but I just validated and told her I had a meeting to go into It's very hard to hear someone you loved and cherished for 25 years crying down the phone about stuff like this.
I hope once the Solictors letter is delivered then W will stop calling and get on with her life.
Thanks to the interest Jim . Really appreciated. Rd ( my boys hug me every night before bed so a manly hug is always welcome BUT if their was a line Pink would be at the front !!!!!!!!)
