Thanks Gan, Jim & Fogg. Gan....many similarities for us in NC terms! Thanks Jim. I'm just not sure on financials. I'd like to be sorted, but I don't need to be. I feel it pushes us closer to D & I may not be ready to do that...I'll give it some more thought & see what unfolds I think.

Fogg, thanks for visiting. I think you post a lot of sense, so I'm glad you stopped by. It is frustrating, but I try not to go there too much. He loves me, but we've only spoken twice since September. Worlds apart right now...

Sorry to be brief all - busy day & typing on phone. I'll catch up when I'm home again. X


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus