You stated "in my experience". I am curious what your experience is. Would you be willing to share?
I read some of your posts. You have been lurking for quite some time. Your advice seems very reasonable. However, I like to know where you are coming from - emotionally and experientially. It helps *me* process information I am receiving. Have you thought about starting a thread describing your sitch? I have seen Mr. Bond request this of others sometime.
Of course, you do not have to share your experience with me or anyone else on this board. But I was just wondering. Are you a LBS? an attorney? a WAS? Interested 3rd party?
Regardless, thanks for the advice. You are my first vote against "bird nesting".