It's a nightmare. Wake me up 2

[25yearsmlc]

PS

Your GAL needs to involve meeting and interacting with A LOT MORE PEOPLE and not so many solo activities.

There are lots of reasons for this, but for now, please think about it.

Especially meeting new people, helps us obsess Less about our spouses or our situations, and helps us be happier, a lot faster.

I don't believe anyone can detach without GAL- especially having new and more people in our lives other than our walk away spouses.

Put another way,

GAL + Time = Detachment

and

Consistent change (in us) + sufficient time = change the WAS can believe in.

You need to make those changes, be consistent with them and give it TIME.

You must GAL with others, and give that time and Detachment will come.

You won't be on the roller coaster anymore.

And no, detachment does Not = giving up.

But you must Detach before you can really move forward in your life.