Yeah ... I agree, and if her mother is any indication ... odds are she will be more negative. I always have been a pretty positive person but the past few years I feel like someone/something just sucked out my mojo, I do see myself being different around her at times, and I am not as positive around her as I used to be .... maybe its the hurt, the betrayal .. all those things ... its hard to let that stuff go .... even harder when she seems to want to brush it under the rug and act like it was all just a bad dream.