Thanks, Cadet. Even though I do want her out of the house, her talking about actually leaving is hitting me pretty hard. Like it's just one step closer to the big D.
Yea - I understand - Perfectly natural feeling.
I will say this about D. It is just a legal piece of paper. You can always re-marry her.
Divorce is the ultimate boundary and sometimes it takes that in order for people on both sides to see more clearly.