Zues, this is exactly what newbies like me need to hear. I think it is easy for vets and others that have been on here for a while to forget that some of on here are at the eariler stages of all of this and have no idea on how to proceed through this. We don't even know what we are feeling half the time let alone working on DB.

What I appeciate about your replies is that you acknowledge our newness to all of this and refrain from being condescending. I cannot say that about the replies I have seen being posted on other peoples topics.

This all makes sense to me. I can see that I probably need to have a conversation with H. Assuming he is now leading some R talk, it is good timing to do this?


Me: 42 H: 40
M: 12
H moved out - 8/2015
I filed - 8/2015