Toots,

I know it sounds like I am giving up on my marriage, but in my signature line, I have been trying to work on my marriage since 2010 and I am physically and emotionally drained.

Zues126, yes this has been a long issue for me. No, we are not living in the same house. He moved out 1-31-15 for third time, by my request this time only.

And once I make my decision, I will have peace.


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)