Rip, I really want to put some thought into this. I will reply more later.
Edit - start a new thread - Cadet
Last edited by Cadet; 05/11/1505:13 PM. Reason: message
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
I know - so hard to think about 2-3 years down the road and the what if's that could happen.
I try not to go there becuase I could honestly drive myelf bonkers overthinking things. I focus on what I have to do NOW. I have a plan for the future of course but it's pretty loose.
As you and I know both know, we have zero control over our WW and just have to accept it. It blows but there it is.
I hope your move out goes smoothly and keep DB man.