RD I couldn't help but thinking about your sich as I was at the gym this morning. And I don't understand where your LC is coming from. Who cares if OM is just a friend, your W's relationship with him has interfered with your M and with her parenting. It could be anything, a PA, an EA, an online shopping habit, a bottle of rum, an obsession with spin class. Until it goes, there can be no restoration.
I know you admire LC and I'm sorry she feels like she can't help you anymore, that must feel like a loss in and of itself. I hope you can find someone else that you admire as much to help you on the next part of the journey.
