I want to believe but feel lost. Her decision seems so set in stone. I'm seeking guidance. Where do I begin/restart?
Yes she believes her decision is set in stone. You must believe that is her real belief(at least for now) So how do you LET GO? How do you detach and let her have the decision that she feels she has already made?
You have NO CONTROL over her decision, only over YOURS.
Your decision should not be communicated to her, IMHO.
