Wow I am also having some issues on this. We started are problems 10-14. H moved out 1-28-15. We have made no progress. Sometimes he is nice and we do things together, other times he is very indifferent and I hear nothing from him.
Its very confusing and I am on a rollercoaster of is he coming home or never coming home. I think about it constantly. It is very hard to wait and see because you don't know what is going to happen. Maybe that is where the importance of GAL comes in and you the detaching. It is just very hard to do.
