Reading your updates .. its impossible to not walk away impressed with how you are handling this big ball of mess. With total grace, it just shouts what kind of person you are, your H one day will wake up and hopefully realize all this ... I pray he does.
Not much advice I can give ya .. you seem to have it all locked down. Reading your tidbit about the anniversary .. thats a good way to go about it I think. Mine is coming up next month... I recall last year W and I were really not on good terms, I remember looking at her, its strange but looking back at times she gave me this soft look, almost letting me know without saying it that she was still in there somewhere trying to dig out .. anyways it was that look then she hugged me, so I said "For what its worth ... Happy Anniversary" She hugged me hard and whispered in my ear "Its not till tomorrow, you always got the date confused..... but thank you" I still find it funny, all the MLC stuff and their memory being horrible .. I usually tried not to focus on that because honestly mine is worse ...lol
