Ok, just to be clear, I am in no way ready to forgive as H has a great deal to do before that point. I am just asking if his behavior in pushing for conversations about R, opening up, and asking if I can trust him again is a sign that maybe he is starting to move in a positive direction. I will certainly need him to express remorse and really work on M. I am just trying to figure out hiw to engage with these conversations that is is pushing?
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015