Based solely on what you have written if I were to meet you I would run the other way.
I think I have said this before, it's not about what you exactly say or do but your way of looking at the world. It comes across without even saying the words.
If you have a mind set that you are better than others it shows to EVERYONE not just the person/people you think you are smarter/better looking/more mature than.
Anyone that sees this will most likely be very turned off by it and not want to **possibly** be on the receiving end of this attitude.

I guess this is VERY personal for me as I have been on the receiving end of someone I love and value thinking they were a better parent and I was "not always a good mom". I know the damage it can do to a relationship. Not ONE single day goes by that I don't think about my husband thinking I wasn't a good mom (I was too strict in his opinion) this was NEVER said directly to me. It has caused WAY more damage than his affair.

Please try and see things from someone else's perspective.


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction