Thanks Edz. Appreciate the support mate Solicotors letter will be re the legal seperation and I believe the court date will be included. I'm not trying influnce W one way or the other. Just trying to get this done asap so W , kids and I can all move on and deal with the fact that M is now over officially I see a lot of short term sadness for kids but they will be able to deal with something concrete and start to grieve and then live their new lives. Your own sitch has been inspiring and I always smile when I think of the day you tell S. Wonderful !!!