Need some help here.

We went to couples counseling the Friday after I found out about the A and W said she wanted a D. It didn't go great. She didn't like the guy, etc etc.

Well, at the end of the session she agreed to go again, which is this Friday. Should I cancel this as it's just going to bring up D some more and make us talk about the R?

I can see how some of what might come out during the session might be seen as pursuing and I don't want that.

Should we steer clear of couples counseling during all of this?


M30 W30
Married: 1 year
Together: 4 years
No kids
3 Dogs