Rd Moving on 6

[edz]

Hi Rd

about time I come over to you after all the support you've shown in my threads.

Ive said before we need a hand on shoulder icon here!

Sorry to hear about the above, you're being strong for you and the kids and its a horrible situation to be in to feel you cant keep going with a situation. As everyones bored of hearing me say my sitch is different in that there was no third party but the tail end of last year and the begining of this I felt utterly lost and wondered should I just give up and start again, w was showing no signs of contacting me or moving forward.

I know retrospectively she was working through a lot, theres no slam dunk to my sitch, could all still fly apart but we're talking and moving and I know now what she was thinking in those times I thought there was little to no hope. In short if you want to stop for you and the kids because thats what you need or you need to move in another direction and cant until you do then you should but be wary of that fatigue and tiredness that creeps over when you're standing or actively trying to be the one who has hope for the relationship.

In my case I needed a hell of a lot of work on me both for me and for any hope of my m and I hope Ive at least made a good start on that. Your case is different but it may be that w is lost and is trying to find herself and where she wants to be but ultimately thats something she needs to do.

Maybe a solicitors letter will be a reminder of what else she stands to lose and may facilitate changes? Either way given all the work, effort and love youve poured into the sitch and your family mate you should do whats right for you and them, we're all here for you.

Cheers

Edz