Ripken - LRT with a WW and divorce filed #2

[Ripken8]

Defacto, what helps you? I really only have 2 more weeks before I move out. Which is starting to give me some anxiety. It will be nice to be on my own and not have to live with the ww while the affair is in full force and not have to be triggered my phone calls, texts and her "plans" as she leaves for the night.

However, I'm really worried and scared that I'll be incredibly lonely and that the reality will continue to set in that she's never coming back. I know I can't control that, but so many on this board still hold out hope the 2-3 years down the road the path is paved and she may reconsider.

How does that hope not turn into attachment? I can't imagine being able to endure this pain for 2-3 more months, let alone 2-3 years.