Thank you so much for replying. I will continue with detaching. I have joined a support group and it has helped alot. I am telling myself to take advantage of this time and do something for myself.

H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)