Rip, I'm glad your day was salvaged. I know it felt good to do something nice for your W. As far as cake eating, it might be. But rest assured, if there ever was a day to get a pass, yesterday was it. I'm sort of struggling with the same thing in my sitch. Keep it up, you've come a long way, Rip!
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15