I can see you POV, maybe my timing was not so great after a hard afternoon.
As far as the sunscreen issue, my D6 was wearing a new outfit with no arms coverings and very little back cloth. I didn't accuse my WW of putting her in jeopardy of sunburn, I just said casually, lets go put on some sunscreen while I get some stuff out of the car and off we skipped to the car.
But yes, in the light of an objective third party, I can see how it might have been taken as a criticism. I honestly thought I was doing a favor, getting them lathered up and that's why I keep sunscreen and hats in the car, for sunny days. That's how it used to be, one of us would load up the car, the other would tend to the needs of the kids, we would tag team it so one of us wasn't doing all of the heavy lifting or work. But we are not a team anymore. I have to remember that. I was fired from the team. I have to remember that too.
I will refrain from any more reminders. I can see how this could be viewed as pursuing behavior.
She was "short" with the kids today I did notice. She criticized them for reading at the table, making too much noise, not eating all of their food, etc... Maybe today was just a hard day for her for whatever reason that I had nothing to do with.
