I've been chatting this evening with a lady I had coffee with 3.5 years ago! I signed on to OKCupid, and made very clear my faith, and I found her on this site too. She was the second lady I had coffee with when I started online dating. She was really anxious 'cuz she'd just started out again too. She said to me "we have to be very careful, we don't have time to mess up again!" lol. Anway, we had a nice evening and I drove her home and asked her to meet again...and she flaked on me. But she did send me a nice email saying that she was just feeling she wasn't ready to date yet and was taking herself off the dating site. No prob. So anyway, she's a Christian, loves photography, sang in her church choir, fun sense of humour and I liked her. So, I "liked" her and she "liked" me (and we also have a 97% match on OK Cupid...whatever that means) so I sent her a message. She responded "Have we communicated before? How do you know my name? Please help me to remember." So I gave her the details of our coffee meet and even told her the funny thing she said that I remembered. She replied "I'm so impressed! You remember the date, the place and the details of our conversation!" I told her that I'm good with detail...I should have told her it was cuz she was so memorable lol. Anyway, we chatted for over an hour and she looked at my Flicker page. We talked about church and photos. I left it at suggesting we get together again soon and gave her what day of the week worked best for me and said that I'd be delighted to see her again if she'd like to. So I just left it at "we'll talk more soon" She responded with "Oh Ok, you have to go. Nice chatting with you. Have a great rest of the night" Hm, not sure about that answer...she isn't breaking down my door lol. When I first contacted her a few years ago she quizzed me for nine days by email and finally I told her it was time to put up or shut up...ha ha, nicely of course. She wasn't ready then...so we shall see. Again, not sure a non-Adventist will work but I'm willing to take a look.
