Originally Posted By: Kramer
How pathetic I am. I'm at Costco buying groceries, and I keep seeing so many things that I would ordinarily buy my wife for Mothers Day. I actually put a few items in my cart out of habit, but reluctantly put them back, based on advice from this board. I always loved giving gifts, and it is so hard now that my wife has left me.
Hello Kramer,

Please do not think that way about yourself! You are human and did not ask for any of this. Many of us on this forum have felt the same way about buying our Wayward or Walk-Away Spouse a gift for a special occassion.

You are a giving person and that is how giving people think. You are a GREAT guy.

Please hang in there, my friend, and try to take things one day at a time.

Bob


Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS)
M:14 yrs
T:15 yrs
No children together--3 each from previous marriages
Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14
Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14
Divorce Final: 10/21/15