Hi Mobile, I think the best approach is to give back 75% of what you get and don't overthink her motivations. So if she says 'mobile, I really, really miss you' just reply 'I miss you too' and carry on with your day.

Unfortunately, the journey we are on isn't usually a short one, and there are many twists and turns. The best thing to focus on is yourself and how you are going to work on your own issues and your balance, steadiness and perspective in order that you can get through this.

If you focus too much on your W and try to analyse stuff she says and does, it pulls you back onto the rollercoaster. But for most of us, that needs to happen for a while before we learn....

Keep looking after yourself and doing what you are doing, and try not to worry too much about what she is saying or thinking right now. If she truly wants back in, believe me - you're not going to miss it.

Take Care :-)

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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus