Way to go! I guess I'm going to have some down days (more down days!) at some point soon, but, you can see how many people support you on here. Keep going, those D papers aren't done with yet!
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
Way to go! I guess I'm going to have some down days (more down days!) at some point soon, but, you can see how many people support you on here. Keep going, those D papers aren't done with yet!
Hi Huddy,
Thank you so much for your support! Yes, I'm sure you will have some down days, it is ery normal. Sometimes, I am overwhelmed (in a good way, of course) by the number of people who support me on this forum. I wish I could somehow meet you all.
Hang in there and thank you checking in on me.
You are truly awesome!
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
Hi Bob. Your sounding much better and that's great. Meetup sounds like a good time and your I/C is right about your progress. This is a long Road Bob and it will take many twists and turns. Your working hard on yourself and whatever the outcome Bob will be happy again. You came on to Newcomers and you've blossomed. You are very supportive of others and you are reaping what you sow in support.
Keep on the good fight Bob because the outcome depends on it.
Bob, you're a shining light for so many people on this board. I read more than post but any time someone is in need, you're there with a heart felt response. I've never met you either but it's very clear - you have a HUGE heart!
Keep your chin up my man.
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
Hi Bob. Your sounding much better and that's great. Meetup sounds like a good time and your I/C is right about your progress. This is a long Road Bob and it will take many twists and turns. Your working hard on yourself and whatever the outcome Bob will be happy again. You came on to Newcomers and you've blossomed. You are very supportive of others and you are reaping what you sow in support.
Keep on the good fight Bob because the outcome depends on it.
Hi Rd,
How are things across the pond? I feel better. Thank you for the heart-felt support and compliments. You always seem to be there for all of us.
I can't recall how many times you have brought a smile to my face or made me feel understood or given solid advice.
Thanks again!
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
Wishing you the best. Take things one day at a time is the only way to get through it. Try to make each day better than the day before.
You can do it.
Hello Matt,
Thank you very much, sir. You are 100% correct about taking things one day at a time. I love your attitude. Please do the same!
Also, thank you for the inspiration. I can do it -- so can you.
Regards,
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
Bob, you're a shining light for so many people on this board. I read more than post but any time someone is in need, you're there with a heart felt response. I've never met you either but it's very clear - you have a HUGE heart!
Keep your chin up my man.
Hello Pigpen,
How are you? I have to catch up on your situation. I imagine your W is still trying to figure out who she is.
Your comments mean SO much to me, I'm not embarrassed to admit I'm tearing up a little now - tears of joy. I've never thought of myself as a "shining light" but that is so kind of you. I simply try to give back to others. Maybe it is because I am the oldest of 4 siblings. My mom, who passed away, truly had a HUGE heart.
You, and so many others on this board keep me going.
So...back at you. You are a shining light for me today.
Thanks for checking in and posting PigPen.
Keep your chin up, too!
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
Just reading through your thread Bob. Glad to see you're doing better today. I go thru these ups and downs constantly, and find myself saying "I can't do this anymore" quite often, just to keep at it. Whether it is words of encouragement here, reading a book or listening to a podcast I keep on trucking. It's hard and it [censored]...but it is making us all into better people.
I think it's good you can reflect and make the decision to keep going to meet-up but to stay away from the bar. It's important to keep getting out, it gets easier (I think!)
Me-44 (45) H- 50 (51) M-'96
S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)
BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas) home Oct(sep rooms) (EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed) insists wants D through July 2015 no more talk of D since
I feel better. Thank you for the heart-felt support and compliments. You always seem to be there for all of us.