Hi Toots your sounding a wee bit down. I see you all over the boards and you offer such sound and helpful advice. Isn't it weird how it's hard to take your own advice sometimes ? We all tell each other to be patient and detach and let the outcome be what is will be but its so hard. I feel like it's very hard for you because your H says such goods things about you. It's so hard to understand what he's thinking because as an outsider I feel no doubt that he will regret his choices and realise what a terrible mistake he has made. I truly hope it's sooner rather than later that he comes to his senses Toots you have a very full life and I admire how you stand for your M