Sandi thanks for the suggestion. Was able to have lunch with my own mother today. That was nice but still tough.

I know there's no way to speed through the grieving process, but what recommendations does anyone have to help as I go through it? Anything to read?

I have a ic, I come here, db coach no longer seems to make sense. I'm trying to gal and have plans wed. Anything else I can do?

M-33
W-33
S-11, S-8
M-11, T-14
BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18
I moved out 5/23