Dignity is what it's all about. If they don't want you, somebody else will. I'm only starting on the path really, long way to go, but some of the advice on here is like gold dust.
I can see it's bad for you because you've had BD twice. That really does seem harsh. You do what's right for you.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
