Thanks Huddy. I slipped big time for the past few months. Last year this time I was in a good place and the 180s were really working. My life got much more complicated and my confidence has been shaken since October when I started realizing his friendship with OW was probably the catalyst for what was happening. That and my job insecurity. I gave my power to him out of fear and desperation and he used it to his advantage. But I am starting to feel like myself again, and trying to turn the tables back towards me.
180s work. It worked for me, until I slipped so drastically. And I don't even care if it saves my marriage at this point. I don't want the man he is right now. But what I need is to get my dignity back.
40s 2teens M14Y BD-10/12/13 rec-1/14 BD2-5/14 rec2-9/14 EA disc-10/14 4/15-BD 3 and triangulation ensues Served with D6/15 MS forced to leave7/15 D agreement signed 8/16 final 5/17
