Hey Heavy - wishing you the best.
Make it a great mother's day for you and the kids too.

I am trying to do the same - faking my way through the day (and trying not to ruin it for the kids sake).

Going to stop by my parents, then going to a family dinner with in-laws, Then back home and business as usual.

I am so tired of her ability to ignore. I really need to develop this skill. Sometimes I feel like when I ignore the elephant, I lose all ground though.

My goal - cordial, keep snide comments inside my head, shut my eyes when they roll. I considered staying away, not acknowledging mothers day - but I guess that is not fair to her or the kids, I wished her a happy one, took d15 to get gift, gave money to s17 for gift.

Good luck today


Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015