Hey Heavy - wishing you the best. Make it a great mother's day for you and the kids too.
I am trying to do the same - faking my way through the day (and trying not to ruin it for the kids sake).
Going to stop by my parents, then going to a family dinner with in-laws, Then back home and business as usual.
I am so tired of her ability to ignore. I really need to develop this skill. Sometimes I feel like when I ignore the elephant, I lose all ground though.
My goal - cordial, keep snide comments inside my head, shut my eyes when they roll. I considered staying away, not acknowledging mothers day - but I guess that is not fair to her or the kids, I wished her a happy one, took d15 to get gift, gave money to s17 for gift.
Good luck today
Me-45 W-44 S21, S18, D15 T-27, M-21 BD Jan 2014 PA revealed March 2014 In-house separation - April 2015 I filed - Aug 2015 She moved out Oct 2015