Hi Edz - you're welcome. I'm doing okay thanks. I'm still a bit tired from the elections marathon, but had a quietish afternoon and evening yesterday. Today I'm mum-sitting and she and I are watching the VE Day concert this afternoon, which is very good. There's a weird thing happening with their fireplace and I have rescued five bees from behind the fire guard so far!

I'm doing a bit of work too, as I have a couple of meetings this week - the first more challenging things I have had to do, so I'm a little anxious and hoping all will go okay.

In terms of my sitch, all is quiet and I think I'm just going to run with that for a little while. I feel that if I push things at the moment, we just edge closer to D. I'm not sure if H is in MLC and will be one of those MLCers who mentions D, but doesn't actually initiate it. Or whether he will get on with it and I'll have to respond. I guess time will tell, but I'm just focusing on my own stuff right now. I'm not sure about the whole pursuit and distance thing in our sitch - we just feel like distance and distance you know? It's staggering that H and I have been in a loving R for 10 + years and now we have barely spoken for months. Oh well - not much I can do. Just feeling a bit tired and meh today I guess. I'll be fine...

RD,and Bob, thanks for stopping by too xx


Last edited by Toots; 05/10/15 02:43 PM.
T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus