Expectations are key. That's the hardest part for me. All the second guessing and feeling of walking on eggshells are moot if there are no expectations. So if you go and only want to go for your kids, you'll be fine and have a great time.

If you're thinking how to leverage the appearance to have a more positive effect on the relationship with your ww, that's where things get tough

M-33
W-33
S-11, S-8
M-11, T-14
BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18
I moved out 5/23