But TODAY I feel you need to give her a lot of attention. Just focus on really listening to her and letting her talk, talk, talk.
You get her to pursue but then what do you do with that? If she pursues and you just stoically reject her what's the point?
Spend as much time as possible with her today but at or near the end is when you back off again. When she goes to leave you just say "bye" and keep playing with the kids or whatever.
Remember it's ok to express some feelings. That's part of your 180. You just tell her you were hurt by her taking down all those pictures on Facebook. Don't foray to far down that path. Express feelings and then move on to something fun. You aren't needy or pursuing, just expressing some emotion. You are allowed to have feelings too. But mostly let her talk.
Gotta run myself...mother's day and all.
The internet is 90% complaining and entitlement and I hate it because I deserve better!