I'm sorry you are going through this, I know the desperation of just wanting it to end at times when it looks hopeless. If you want to save your M, don't end it, stand for as long as you can. You let go of the things you cant control, and you work on the parts of yourself that you can. You really do have alot of people trying to help you on here and explaining what you may not see, or at the very least don't see how to change yet.
The choice is yours, if you want it to end, then do it, but don't end it because of W.
Hi Miman,
The quote from Fogg above is exactly how I feel. As Fogg also wrote, things get worse before they get better. Please think about that before making any choices you may regret later.
We all want the best for you.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
